A Fathers Guide to Healthy Conversations with Teens in a Changing World

- Raising Evolution Part 1

The world is rapidly changing for Men and for what it means to raise our children in this world.

This workshop tackles some of the most important topics that have not traditionally been explored deeply by many men... designed to help guide some understanding around what it means to raise our kids, and indeed ourselves, in this new world and empowering us all to embrace our fullest human potential.

Male-bodied teens are very welcome to join you for this workshop.

Hosted by Kate Alderman and Kevin Chan********

This is a fully clothed workshop and is for people in male bodies only – teenagers and adults.

An adult participant must accompany participants under 18 years of age.

And you don’t need to be in a relationship to benefit from this workshop, what we’ll explore will greatly enhance your understanding of Self and will bring benefits to future relationship/s.

Everything we need and want to know about intimacy and pleasure is not covered in school sex education, and most of us didn’t grow up in sex-positive environments where we could ask parents how to become good at intimacy and experience more pleasure.

With sex and related topics falling in the taboo category, many seek answers and education via magazines and instantly available pornography. Unfortunately these resources are not the reality of love and intimacy, and instead create feelings of performance anxiety, fear of expectation and agenda, and a warped body image. Many people are connecting with others with an overactive mind rather than being, feeling and expressing from the body.

-Would you like to feel more embodied?
-Would you like to feel more sexually empowered?
-Would you like to feel more confident during intimacy?
-Would you like to better understand people in female bodies and learn ways to powerfully communicate?
-Are you longing for more intimacy and connection?
-Would you like to expand your pleasure potential?

If your wish is for your children to also feel this empowerment and understanding for themselves, but you’re not sure exactly how, this workshop is for you.

This workshop shines light on what’s missing within intimate relationships to create new levels of understanding, communication and pathways to fulfilling and empowered intimacy.

In this workshop we’ll explore:
- Embodiment
- Consent and boundaries
- Full body consent – “fuck yes” and “fuck no”
- Embodied intimacy and empowered communication
- Self indulgence – expressing your needs and desires
- Pathways to deep and fulfilling pleasure
- Reclaiming sexual empowerment
- The myth of telepathy
- Normalising Self-Pleasure
- Understanding the menstrual cycle and how to speak with partner about this
- Healthy Primal instincts Vs Unhealthy Primal instincts

All of the nourishing Somatic practices and exercises are offered as an invitation and opportunity to explore and learn. Your level of participation is your choice. Please dress comfortably.

“I see many male-bodied clients who are not able to express their needs, and many feel guilty about their desires. Many express that they wish they had this education as teenagers. Many people have been exposed to sexual taboo and are not practiced in communicating their body’s needs and desires confidently.”

“I was drawn to this path for my own embodied healing and this naturally inspired my passion to share this with others. I often experienced pain and discomfort during sex, and my pathway to healing included me gaining a deep understanding of people in male bodies on a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level. I’m very passionate about working with both male and female-bodied clients, bridging the gaps of misunderstanding, and providing opportunities for somatic learning and experiencing. I’m excited to share all of this with you, it’s made a huge difference in my world, and feedback from clients expressing the difference it’s making for them, lights me up and inspires me to share more.”

KATE ALDERMAN
www.kate-alderman.com

SOMATIC SEXOLOGIST, CERTIFIED SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORKER, ISTA I&II, MASTER YOUR PLEASURE & SHAMANIC WOMB JOURNEY GRADUATE, AUTHOR & WORKSHOPS FACILITATOR

Kate has the training and experience to support you in connecting more fully with your body, sex and sexuality. She is very passionate about helping people expand their pleasure capacity, feel more embodied, and reclaim sexual empowerment.

Kate has presented at festivals and retreats such as Taste Of Love, FEAST, Illuminate, One World Tantra Festival and The Edge.

She offers sex coaching, embodied therapy and somatic education to people in the Gold Coast, Australia - one on one, couples and group facilitation. She also works with people across the globe via Zoom or Messenger Video Call.

Kate combines many years of experience in fitness, health, healing, breath work, bodywork, transformation, plant medicines and the shamanic arts to create a unique transmission that inspires, enlivens and awakens. Kate is an engaging speaker with a natural gift of sharing interesting stories, references and rich personal experiences. She delivers her understanding and wisdom within a practical context that inspires, motivates, and awakens new perspectives.

Kate brings presence, warmth, openness, heart, and authenticity to her work, and welcomes people of all genders, sexualities and relationship preferences.

Kate is a professional member of SSEAA – Somatic Sex Educators Australia
www.sseaa.org

KEVIN CHAN
https://thevoidspace.com/

FATHER, LOVER, SUCCESSFUL ENTREPRENEUR, B. INTERNATIONAL BUSINESS, ISTA I & II, CERTIFIED MOJO DANCE WEAVER, CREATOR AND COORDINATOR OF THE EDGE RETREAT AND THE BODY TEMPLE FESTIVAL.

CURRENTLY STUDYING AUTHENTIC RELATING TRAINING AND TRANSPERSONAL PSYCHOLOGY.

Kevin is a loving father of three beautiful children, a daughter (13) and two sons (11 and 3). He is passionate about raising children consciously, and indeed also working with adults, to unearth their authentic truths and to maximise their potential as compassionate, heart-led, powerful, self-guided sovereign human beings.

Is it out of this same passion, he has created offerings for our community to experience embodied practices and workshops that reclaim our power by exploring our emotions, conditioned beliefs, vulnerability and sexuality.

Passionate about social justice and the environment, Kevin has a varied history, including successfully running and selling businesses, involvement in student organisations, Financial Director of the international charity Empowering Communities, Treasurer and Management Comnmittee at the Aldinga Arts EcoVillage, and a champion for sustainable development showcasing his Owner Built strawbale house for Sustainable House Day.

Please contact Kate or Kevin if you would like to come to this workshop but are under financial difficulty.

​Please bring: A mat to lie, cushions, and anything you need for comfort, drink of water and journal if you like to take notes.

Please arrive 15mins early to settle in.

Limited tickets available - bookings essential.